Wow, that's a heavy statement! As I sit here on the computer instead of at my sewing machine, drinking my swiss mocha coffee, doing laundry, and listening to the silence of the dogs, ...I think how that sentiment applies to so many areas of my life. (Pause, stare off into space, thinking about life!) But I'm a simple person and what I meant by it was my quilting design! I know, a big letdown. However, there is a lesson learned...not to be so rigid. Be flexible and adjust to the needs around you. Learn to let go and not get stuck on one (i.e. my) way. And that's a biggie for me in all areas of my life.